relationships 16 May 2026 Daily Monitor (Uganda)
The 'Crisis Companions': Friends Who Shine in Dark Times
Some friends and family members possess a unique talent for appearing precisely when life throws its worst at us. These 'crisis companions' are often less visible during good times but prove invaluable during periods of grief, financial hardship, or personal turmoil. Source: https://www.monitor.co.ug/uganda/magazines/life/the-friends-who-only-show-up-when-life-falls-apart-5462240
We all have them – those friends or relatives who only seem to surface when life takes a turn for the worse. While they might not be the first to call for a party, their true strength lies in their ability to navigate and support during our darkest hours.
Think of the relative who appears almost magically after a bereavement. They calmly take charge, ensuring food is served, guests are accommodated, and traditional rites are followed. Once the immediate crisis has passed, they quietly depart, awaiting the next call to service.
Similarly, during personal struggles like financial ruin, certain friends emerge as unwavering pillars of support. They are the ones who show up with a meal when you can’t afford one, offer transport money when you’re facing despair, and remain by your side when others have faded away.
As your situation improves, these ‘bad-time friends’ may naturally recede. It’s not out of malice, but rather an understanding that their specific purpose – to help you through the hardship – has been fulfilled. They are the unsung heroes of our toughest seasons.
Having such individuals in our lives is a profound gift, offering solace and strength when we need it most.