lifestyle 25 March 2026 Daily Monitor (Uganda)
Clinic Colleagues Defy Rules to Build Lasting Love
Geofrey and Brenda met at a clinic in Mbale, overcame workplace restrictions through secret messaging and patient courtship, and recently celebrated their wedding after years of planning amid financial hurdles and life delays. Source: https://www.monitor.co.ug/uganda/lifestyle/heart-to-heart/-we-defied-work-rules-for-love--5403160
Geofrey Wotta and Brenda Khaitsa first crossed paths at Zam Zam clinic in Mbale City in 2017. Geofrey noticed her late that year but waited until January 2018 to exchange numbers and start chatting.
Workplace policies banned relationships, so they kept things discreet via social media and calls. Despite clashing shifts, Geofrey admired Brenda’s kindness, smile, and self-respect, while she valued his gentle, caring side.
By March 2018, after months of messages and private visits, Geofrey proposed over WhatsApp video. She said yes. They stayed professional at work to protect their jobs.
In May, they began cohabiting part-time to deepen their understanding. June brought parental introductions—Geofrey’s family blessed them, and Brenda’s emphasized commitment.
Wedding plans started in 2021 but faced delays from finances and Brenda’s studies from 2024 to 2025. Once she graduated, they formed a committee, held marriage counseling, and pushed forward despite low attendance and unmet pledges.
The big day shone with joy: Geofrey loved Brenda’s radiant smile, and she cherished their public embrace. Their 11-month courtship taught lessons like patience, family ties, communication, small gestures, and flexibility.
Geofrey advises building in-law bonds and committing fully, no escape plans.
Source: Daily Monitor (Uganda)